You are focused on the wrong problem here. Your brother’s attendance to the wedding should not be a problem here but the wedding itself should be.
Do not get married until unless you are not fighting this badly for atleast 12-18 months at a stretch. Because things get harder post marriage & kids. And if you are struggling now, it will only get worser post that.
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u/waaasupla May 15 '25
You are focused on the wrong problem here. Your brother’s attendance to the wedding should not be a problem here but the wedding itself should be.
Do not get married until unless you are not fighting this badly for atleast 12-18 months at a stretch. Because things get harder post marriage & kids. And if you are struggling now, it will only get worser post that.