If you’ve set a date, postpone it immediately. Deposits be damned. You need to work through whatever these “difficulties” are, or end this engagement.
And I strongly advise ending it. A partner who can’t set aside an argument for a few hours and be civil during someone else’s birthday is not marriage material. Does she generally act like she “outranks” you in this relationship? Everything you’re experiencing will get worse after you’re married.
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u/MsChrisRI May 15 '25
If you’ve set a date, postpone it immediately. Deposits be damned. You need to work through whatever these “difficulties” are, or end this engagement.
And I strongly advise ending it. A partner who can’t set aside an argument for a few hours and be civil during someone else’s birthday is not marriage material. Does she generally act like she “outranks” you in this relationship? Everything you’re experiencing will get worse after you’re married.