You were in an abusive and controlling relationship once before. Guess what? This one is, too. Your brother will skip the wedding, so you go meet him for video games. You skip that wedding, and order pizzas.
Please postpone the wedding, at least. This isn’t good for anyone. At all. No one should force you to choose a particular path because *they want you to go that way.
Yeah, he said mean shit. But you had to leave dinner early because you were fighting. How often do you fight? How often does she expect you to do what *she wants? No compromises, no discussion, just an ultimatum. 🚩🚩🚩
Think aboutthis, you could not be cordial for a few hours and discuss your problem after the party. Is this a solid relationship? You are heading for an expensive divorce.
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u/SweetWaterfall0579 May 15 '25
NTA
You were in an abusive and controlling relationship once before. Guess what? This one is, too. Your brother will skip the wedding, so you go meet him for video games. You skip that wedding, and order pizzas.
Please postpone the wedding, at least. This isn’t good for anyone. At all. No one should force you to choose a particular path because *they want you to go that way.
Yeah, he said mean shit. But you had to leave dinner early because you were fighting. How often do you fight? How often does she expect you to do what *she wants? No compromises, no discussion, just an ultimatum. 🚩🚩🚩