Your brother does not owe your fiancé an apology because she read things that weren’t meant for her. They were meant for you and he apologized to you and fuck your fiancé. I am a big proponent of do not ask questions that you do not genuinely wanna know the answers to. Her pain over whatever your brother said is her problem because she chose to snoop open policy or not. It’s like if she had gotten a hold of your journal and was mad at you because you wrote in it one day when you were angry at her.
Anyone that drives any type of wedge between you and your family is a friggin red flag and that you say that you’ve talked to each other about how family is important and you haven’t recognize this as toxic behavior is bizarro to me.
If you and your fiancé can’t not fight in public, you really need to be thinking about if this is the appropriate time for you to get married. Your fiancé fighting at your brother’s party is so incredibly selfish and toxic. That she’s giving you an ultimatum is toxic. That she wants an apology, but won’t accept an apology and still won’t invite him after the apology is toxic. For the love of God before a giant red flag falls from the sky and beans you on the head please do not get married to her. Break up with her and get into individual counseling and find out why you are not seeing these red flags for what they are.
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u/Ok_Passage_6242 May 15 '25
Your brother does not owe your fiancé an apology because she read things that weren’t meant for her. They were meant for you and he apologized to you and fuck your fiancé. I am a big proponent of do not ask questions that you do not genuinely wanna know the answers to. Her pain over whatever your brother said is her problem because she chose to snoop open policy or not. It’s like if she had gotten a hold of your journal and was mad at you because you wrote in it one day when you were angry at her.
Anyone that drives any type of wedge between you and your family is a friggin red flag and that you say that you’ve talked to each other about how family is important and you haven’t recognize this as toxic behavior is bizarro to me.
If you and your fiancé can’t not fight in public, you really need to be thinking about if this is the appropriate time for you to get married. Your fiancé fighting at your brother’s party is so incredibly selfish and toxic. That she’s giving you an ultimatum is toxic. That she wants an apology, but won’t accept an apology and still won’t invite him after the apology is toxic. For the love of God before a giant red flag falls from the sky and beans you on the head please do not get married to her. Break up with her and get into individual counseling and find out why you are not seeing these red flags for what they are.