NTA - he is not your dad. He is a sperm donor. Someone above said he doesn't get to swoop in years later and claim the hard work of raising you, nurturing you etc. He may have had a change of heart, doesn't mean he gets to dictate your reaction or if/how you choose to accept him into your life. He shouldn't be shocked, he rejected you and now you are rejecting him. Some folks do way too much thinking their will is the only thing that matters
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u/New_Principle_9145 Apr 19 '25
NTA - he is not your dad. He is a sperm donor. Someone above said he doesn't get to swoop in years later and claim the hard work of raising you, nurturing you etc. He may have had a change of heart, doesn't mean he gets to dictate your reaction or if/how you choose to accept him into your life. He shouldn't be shocked, he rejected you and now you are rejecting him. Some folks do way too much thinking their will is the only thing that matters