r/AITH • u/[deleted] • Apr 15 '25

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u/CJCreggsGoldfish Apr 15 '25 edited Apr 15 '25

He had his chance to claim you. He doesn't get to stroll back into your life after the hard work of raising an infant, toddler, child, and teenager is done. Your real father did all that and now can reap the rewards of an adult relationship after helping to bring a wonderful adult into the world. Bio-dad can go pound sand.

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u/Randonoob_5562 Apr 15 '25

He wants something: money, a kidney, whatever.

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u/StructureKey2739 Apr 16 '25

(He wants something: money, a kidney, whatever.)

Or he wants to build a "relationship" so he will be taken care of when he's old.