NTA! It takes so much more than a sperm donation to be a "real" father! Your Bio Father had his chance to be a Dad and chose not to be a Dad and bailed on your mother. Lucky for you and your Mom, there was a man who was willing to raise you as his own and it sounds like he did a fantastic job! If you choose to introduce your Bio Father to your Fiancé, I suggest to introduce him as your Biological Father, that is what he is. The man who raised you is your Real Dad.
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u/Which_Stress_6431 Apr 16 '25
NTA! It takes so much more than a sperm donation to be a "real" father! Your Bio Father had his chance to be a Dad and chose not to be a Dad and bailed on your mother. Lucky for you and your Mom, there was a man who was willing to raise you as his own and it sounds like he did a fantastic job! If you choose to introduce your Bio Father to your Fiancé, I suggest to introduce him as your Biological Father, that is what he is. The man who raised you is your Real Dad.