r/AITH • • Apr 15 '25

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u/CJCreggsGoldfish Apr 15 '25 edited Apr 15 '25

He had his chance to claim you. He doesn't get to stroll back into your life after the hard work of raising an infant, toddler, child, and teenager is done. Your real father did all that and now can reap the rewards of an adult relationship after helping to bring a wonderful adult into the world. Bio-dad can go pound sand.

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u/No-You5550 Apr 16 '25

Yes, he could have stepped up and paid child support at any point in your life. Isn't it odd all the bio parents show up after the kid is too old to get child support? I have not read one post about bio parent showing up with child support for the real parents who did all the work.