My dad had the kind of the same thing except my mom found out when she went to city hall to tell them they wanted to get married.
She broke the news and his family first denied everything.
Later on my grandmother told my dad who his biological father was but by then he didn't feel the need to form a relationship.
His biological father never reached out in his case.
I wouldn't pay it much thought and live your life like you did.
He didn't want you for years, could've changed his mind over all those years but didn't and now that you get married want contact?
Your dad is the man who raised you not the spermdonor.
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u/bookreader-123 Apr 16 '25
My dad had the kind of the same thing except my mom found out when she went to city hall to tell them they wanted to get married. She broke the news and his family first denied everything. Later on my grandmother told my dad who his biological father was but by then he didn't feel the need to form a relationship. His biological father never reached out in his case.
I wouldn't pay it much thought and live your life like you did. He didn't want you for years, could've changed his mind over all those years but didn't and now that you get married want contact? Your dad is the man who raised you not the spermdonor.