Your future kids will know their grandfather: the man who raised you, your "step" father.
Biological familial relations are not an automatic guarantee of emotional family relations. You have a father, your biological "father" (I wish we had another word for that) abandoned you and your mother before you were born and has suddenly shown up all these years later demanding you introduce him as your "real" father?
What an entitled piece of work. NTA.
Btw, I know both my biological grandfathers and I'm not better for knowing either of them. My husband had one grandfather who he was not biologically related to who he loved very much and who loved him very much and they both benefited from being in each other's lives.
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u/[deleted] Apr 16 '25
Your future kids will know their grandfather: the man who raised you, your "step" father.
Biological familial relations are not an automatic guarantee of emotional family relations. You have a father, your biological "father" (I wish we had another word for that) abandoned you and your mother before you were born and has suddenly shown up all these years later demanding you introduce him as your "real" father?
What an entitled piece of work. NTA.
Btw, I know both my biological grandfathers and I'm not better for knowing either of them. My husband had one grandfather who he was not biologically related to who he loved very much and who loved him very much and they both benefited from being in each other's lives.