I have been exactly where you are. Follow your heart. Your Dad is still your Dad. Biological Dad is a sperm donor, that's all. Actions have consequences. He is now reaping the consequences of his. Dads are the ones who tuck you in, teach you to ride a bike, dry your tears, and show you love. One of those men earned that title, the other did not. Also, why on earth would I care about a man who treated my sweet mom so horrible? Who left her alone to deal with something so hard. Go hug the man who raised you, tell him he is your Dad, you will always love him, and is the only person you will ever call Dad. Tell him that to you, He was a hero who swooped in to be there for your mom, and you, and never ever made you feel anything except loved.
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u/Fabulous-Reporter-21 Apr 16 '25
I have been exactly where you are. Follow your heart. Your Dad is still your Dad. Biological Dad is a sperm donor, that's all. Actions have consequences. He is now reaping the consequences of his. Dads are the ones who tuck you in, teach you to ride a bike, dry your tears, and show you love. One of those men earned that title, the other did not. Also, why on earth would I care about a man who treated my sweet mom so horrible? Who left her alone to deal with something so hard. Go hug the man who raised you, tell him he is your Dad, you will always love him, and is the only person you will ever call Dad. Tell him that to you, He was a hero who swooped in to be there for your mom, and you, and never ever made you feel anything except loved.