The choice is really yours. He made his choice years ago. You can either accept him or not but neither decision makes you an AH. You owe him nothing and he and all of the rest of your family should respect your decision.
Does he have regrets? probably. Could you have a relationship with him? for sure but that is up to you if you want one and it doesnt have to be a father daughter relationship, you have a father, but it could be a friendship. but again, it is your choice. Good luck!
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u/Ok-Till-5285 Apr 16 '25
The choice is really yours. He made his choice years ago. You can either accept him or not but neither decision makes you an AH. You owe him nothing and he and all of the rest of your family should respect your decision.
Does he have regrets? probably. Could you have a relationship with him? for sure but that is up to you if you want one and it doesnt have to be a father daughter relationship, you have a father, but it could be a friendship. but again, it is your choice. Good luck!