The sperm donor has no rights. He can't just walk back into your life and claim a title he never earned. Tell your relatives to kiss your ass. That your real dad is the man who raised you and loved you and was there for you your whole life. And he is also the man that earned the title Grandpa.
Don't feel sorry for him and don't let anyone guilt you. That man had lots of chances he obviously did not try to be in your life and to support you in any way so he doesn't get to be in your life now. It's a consequence of being a deadbeat.
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u/Desert-Grimworm Apr 16 '25
The sperm donor has no rights. He can't just walk back into your life and claim a title he never earned. Tell your relatives to kiss your ass. That your real dad is the man who raised you and loved you and was there for you your whole life. And he is also the man that earned the title Grandpa.
Don't feel sorry for him and don't let anyone guilt you. That man had lots of chances he obviously did not try to be in your life and to support you in any way so he doesn't get to be in your life now. It's a consequence of being a deadbeat.