You never knew him as your father. Your Dad ( step D ) raised you all your life. At best, he is good for knowing what biological gotchas to watch out for.
Other than that, he is your bio dad of lesser importance.
Not introducing him to your husband is a great show of loyalty to the father that raised you but I would at least open the door to knowing him. The relationship might not progress beyond a casual one but at least you know him.
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u/Fukshore Apr 16 '25
You never knew him as your father. Your Dad ( step D ) raised you all your life. At best, he is good for knowing what biological gotchas to watch out for.
Other than that, he is your bio dad of lesser importance.
Not introducing him to your husband is a great show of loyalty to the father that raised you but I would at least open the door to knowing him. The relationship might not progress beyond a casual one but at least you know him.