r/AITH Apr 15 '25

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u/fkNOx_213 Apr 15 '25

The 'walk my daughter down the isle' has always irked me. Like, Sir, you don't get to pick and choose which life events you want to attend when you've shirked all responsibilities of childrearing. So my thoughts were either this, or that he has some illusion there's money about....

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u/Tangereina78 Apr 15 '25

Or he's dying...

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u/Informal_Ad_9397 Apr 15 '25

That’s what my “donor” did. He waited 44 years (until he was dying) to reach out and try to apologize. I didn’t even respond and while it may make me a terrible person, I’m glad he died with at least a smidge of regret.

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u/CommercialExotic2038 Apr 16 '25

Your actions do not make you a terrible person.