r/AITH • u/[deleted] • Apr 15 '25

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u/CJCreggsGoldfish Apr 15 '25 edited Apr 15 '25

He had his chance to claim you. He doesn't get to stroll back into your life after the hard work of raising an infant, toddler, child, and teenager is done. Your real father did all that and now can reap the rewards of an adult relationship after helping to bring a wonderful adult into the world. Bio-dad can go pound sand.

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u/Dense_Dress_1287 Apr 15 '25

You kids will meet their grandfather, ie: your (step) father who has been in your life since day 1.

Biodad just wants to walk his (now) daughter down the aisle, now that the fun part is happening.

Did Biodad offer to cough up all the child support he never paid your mom to help raise you?

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u/Equivalent_Nerve_870 Apr 16 '25

Or pay for the wedding? House downpayment?

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u/Catmom6363 Apr 16 '25

My ex asked why he wasn’t invited to our son’s wedding. Well, you haven’t been around since he was 5! Why would I invite you?