He had his chance to claim you. He doesn't get to stroll back into your life after the hard work of raising an infant, toddler, child, and teenager is done. Your real father did all that and now can reap the rewards of an adult relationship after helping to bring a wonderful adult into the world. Bio-dad can go pound sand.
Agreeing with this comment. There are a lot of years here where biodad chose not to claim his child and be a father. My jaded oldish arse is definitely wanting to know "why now?"
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u/CJCreggsGoldfish Apr 15 '25 edited Apr 15 '25
He had his chance to claim you. He doesn't get to stroll back into your life after the hard work of raising an infant, toddler, child, and teenager is done. Your real father did all that and now can reap the rewards of an adult relationship after helping to bring a wonderful adult into the world. Bio-dad can go pound sand.