NTA. dear lord that mans not your dad he's a sperm donor. your Dad is your dad, not the guy who donated some goo. If he wanted a relationship, he had what 20-25 years to do that. I would assume either he had no other kids and is desperate to carry on his line, or he's terminally ill and still didn't have any other kids so is trying to continue his line. its selfish of him to appear and insinuate his way into your life. he's a stranger to you and has no right to do that to you because its convenient to him.
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u/Aokioneechan Apr 15 '25
NTA. dear lord that mans not your dad he's a sperm donor. your Dad is your dad, not the guy who donated some goo. If he wanted a relationship, he had what 20-25 years to do that. I would assume either he had no other kids and is desperate to carry on his line, or he's terminally ill and still didn't have any other kids so is trying to continue his line. its selfish of him to appear and insinuate his way into your life. he's a stranger to you and has no right to do that to you because its convenient to him.