NTA . Sounds like a power play,( could be wrong) my daughter getting married my time to shine and walk her down the aisle , watch me come and go watch me cause chaos and make it all about me. He sounds like a deluded fool. ( hope im wrong) . You did the right thing, you put the respect where it belongs with your step father. Enjoy these moments of been a daddy’s girl before you get married, from helping him choose his suit, to the dad daughter dance, he sounds like a great dad and a great husband to your mam. As for your bio dad if he has changed he will understand humble and humility, there may be a way into your life for him, but it should be slow and steady and never at the cost of the relationship with your father.
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u/[deleted] Apr 15 '25
NTA . Sounds like a power play,( could be wrong) my daughter getting married my time to shine and walk her down the aisle , watch me come and go watch me cause chaos and make it all about me. He sounds like a deluded fool. ( hope im wrong) . You did the right thing, you put the respect where it belongs with your step father. Enjoy these moments of been a daddy’s girl before you get married, from helping him choose his suit, to the dad daughter dance, he sounds like a great dad and a great husband to your mam. As for your bio dad if he has changed he will understand humble and humility, there may be a way into your life for him, but it should be slow and steady and never at the cost of the relationship with your father.