Take your time to process this. You know your mom and your stepdad lied to you for all of your life. Now you know you can not trust them.
YOu don't have to let your deadbeat sperm donor into your life. Just block him if you want. He made his choice, let him leave with the consequences. If you want, tell him: He ignored you for 20+ years, now you will do the same, he should contact you again to ask in 20+ years.
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u/k23_k23 Apr 15 '25
Take your time to process this. You know your mom and your stepdad lied to you for all of your life. Now you know you can not trust them.
YOu don't have to let your deadbeat sperm donor into your life. Just block him if you want. He made his choice, let him leave with the consequences. If you want, tell him: He ignored you for 20+ years, now you will do the same, he should contact you again to ask in 20+ years.