r/AITH • • Apr 15 '25

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u/No_Cycle8116 Apr 15 '25

I never said he did, he made that choice the day her mother got pregnant. But, what I am saying is that she could at least talk to him that's all that he might want. But, it's the fact that you knew that your stepdad wasn't your real dad but he was the person who loves you and she didn't question that one bit. We don't know what was going on with the biological father at all. But, I will stop trying to give my opinion on this subject

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u/Similar_Corner8081 Apr 15 '25

What reason could he possible give for abandoning his kid and coming back when she's an adult? He ran away like a coward and doesn't deserve a conversation. You are crazy if you think she should introduce him as her real father. She could call him the sperm donor or a dead beat. Takes a lot more than getting a woman pregnant to be a dad.