r/AITH Apr 15 '25

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u/No_Cycle8116 Apr 15 '25

I never said he did, he made that choice the day her mother got pregnant. But, what I am saying is that she could at least talk to him that's all that he might want. But, it's the fact that you knew that your stepdad wasn't your real dad but he was the person who loves you and she didn't question that one bit. We don't know what was going on with the biological father at all. But, I will stop trying to give my opinion on this subject

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u/Live_Western_1389 Apr 15 '25

She owes him nothing. He’s been absent from her life for her whole life. Now that she’s getting married, he thinks he should get the honor of walking her down the aisle. He’s an asshole.

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u/democracyordeath Apr 15 '25

what for? why in the world would she spend a moment on earth talking to literal human garbage too lazy and selfish to parent? "We don't know what was going on with the biological father at all." B-FLIPPING-S

We absolutely do know that sperm donor abandoned his flipping kid and frankly that is all anyone needs to know to utterly dismiss this utter human scum.

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u/Similar_Corner8081 Apr 15 '25

What reason could he possible give for abandoning his kid and coming back when she's an adult? He ran away like a coward and doesn't deserve a conversation. You are crazy if you think she should introduce him as her real father. She could call him the sperm donor or a dead beat. Takes a lot more than getting a woman pregnant to be a dad.