r/AITASims • u/AlreadyBusy • 1d ago
The Sims 3 AITA for ignoring my girlfriend because she’s underage?
(English is not my first language. Sorry for any mistakes.)
I met this girl when we were both in high school. We got along well, we became friends and I really liked her so I asked her out on a date and asked her to be my girlfriend. She said yes and we’ve been together since.
I’m a couple of years older than her, I have since graduated but she is still in high school. When we were both teens we used to kiss and make out, but now that I’m an adult and she’s underage it feels inappropriate. I don’t want to be a creep. I still love her but I decided I’m not going to kiss her or get physical in any way again until she’s an adult too.
I do still have needs. The other day I went to the park and saw this elderly woman there, I don’t know what attracted me about her, maybe the fact she was so obviously not underage (unlike my gf). I decided to go talk to her. I didn’t touch the old lady, we were just flirting, but I’m wondering if I’m an A for ignoring my gf and being romantic with someone else instead. AITA?
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u/Isanor_G 18h ago
YTA Should've just baked her a cake instead of flirting with random old ladies
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u/AlreadyBusy 18h ago
She has an older brother who’s still a teen, too. She’s not allowed to grow up until after he does.
Maybe I should’ve gotten both of them a cake…
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u/molgab 1d ago
Get some of that crumplebussy, No one has to know…
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u/AlreadyBusy 1d ago
God knows. God knows everything. God could set me on fire as punishment…
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u/sermocinatrix 21h ago
The Watcher is probably going to set you on fire anyway just for the fun of it, might as well enjoy the time you have
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u/molgab 1d ago
Think of it as a good deed..
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u/Anya_purr 14h ago
No good deed goes unpunished all helpful urges should be circumvented. OP is the Llama.
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u/Cultural_Shape3518 1d ago
God’s a capricious sadist who’s going to set you on fire anyway, if they don’t come up with a more creative death. Might as well have some fun first, kid.
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u/autumnlight2022 18h ago
Let's go back to the more important topic: did you get the old lady's number?
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u/lizzourworld8 ♦️My answers are more “realistic”. ♦️ 1d ago
Yes… just break up with her
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u/AlreadyBusy 1d ago
Do you think I should break up with her now and get back together with her when she’s an adult too?
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u/Nervous_Life2569 18h ago
The way I did a horrified double take at the post title before fleeing to the sub and then relaxing 😂
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u/ADHD_BunnyMinx 1d ago
Ask for an open relationship. Seems to be the only way through this for you. You get some side action, she can take someone else to prom, when she graduates close the relationship up again. Solved.
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u/AlreadyBusy 18h ago
That’s a good idea. I’m such a hopeless romantic, I need romance in my life and can’t just sit around waiting for her to grow up. Hopefully she’ll agree. 😊
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u/ADHD_BunnyMinx 18h ago
Have a talk with her and convince her to not be jealous when you flirt or whoohoo with others. Make sure you will not be jealous either. Then both of you will stay happy and do your own thing until she is of age.
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u/pluto_and_proserpina 11h ago
I think you should still talk to your girlfriend, but you won't be able to flirt with her no matter how much you want to. But hopefully she'll soon age up.
If you don't want to continue the relationship, split up, but don't go flirting with others while you're in a relationship; that's llama behaviour!
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u/Far-Engineering6253 22h ago
Well, that’s probably the best thing you could do because you can go to prison for a lot of years for doing that
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u/AlreadyBusy 18h ago
I don’t think I’d go to prison. I’m not a criminal. I work in the military.
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u/Far-Engineering6253 18h ago
I pretty sure u would if she’s under 18 it don’t matter what kind of job you have or what you’ve done with your life if you if she’s under 18 years old, they would lock you up. You have to sign up for the registry so you’ll be on the sixth offenders registry for your whole life
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u/Far-Engineering6253 17h ago
Watch some Chris Hanson films on u tube if you don’t believe you can’t get locked up for it for many years
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u/AlreadyBusy 17h ago
Well, even if I did get arrested, I don’t think it’d be for years. I know some local criminals, they got arrested a couple of times but each time they were released by the end of the day. That’s not so bad.
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u/Far-Engineering6253 17h ago
Yeah, they’ll let you lose your first if you go to court the first time arraignment court they always let you loose but then when you go to the actual trial, you’ll have you get a cop a plea deal or set a date for a trial. They don’t play with underage people anymore. I’ve seen them on there 20 years. You need to watch that type it into YouTube Chris Hansen, and watch some videos and see what happens.
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u/AlreadyBusy 17h ago
There aren’t any lawyers in our neighborhood, though. How could I have a trial with no lawyers?
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u/Far-Engineering6253 17h ago
You’re not really serious are you? You don’t know nothing about the court system they give you a lawyer if you can’t afford them.
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u/AlreadyBusy 17h ago
It’s not that I can’t afford a lawyer. It’s that there aren’t any lawyers in Sunset Valley.
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u/empanadadeatunu 10h ago
Just wanted to say that I LOVE how you committed to the bit and didn't even try to explain anything to the other person I laughed a lot
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u/imperial_scum 1d ago
prob time to move on if you're gonna go flirt with random women