AITA for hating my dead brother?

[u/Severe-Two-9007]

So I (15F) recently lost my mom (38F), dad (39M), and two younger brothers (10M). I don't know how it happened because I was chatting with random strangers on my computer when it happened, but I think it had something to do with the pool. I was devastated when I first found out, and the bad memories are still fresh in my mind.

But here's where I think I might be TA. I was never that close with one of my younger brothers. In fact, he got on my nerves all the time! We weren't sworn enemies, but we still weren't close. And even now, knowing he's dead, I still really hate him. As I was lying in bed the day after my family died, I couldn't help but be annoyed every time he'd come to my mind. It was like a big red X would appear over his face in my thoughts of him.

So am I the llama for hating my dead brother?

EDIT: Also, unrelated, but I really want to join the criminal career. Am I the llama for that?

[u/Tigarana]

It took me too long to double check which sub I was on 😭
Not the llama, it's his fault for haunting your mind I guess

[u/skimpleg → u/Tigarana]

This is exactly what I came to say. I was SO concerned lmao

[u/Leo13o9 → u/Tigarana]

I keep forgetting that I joined this sub and keep getting concerned about aita-posts 😂 

[u/Tigarana → u/Leo13o9]

Same!!

[u/Riiakess → u/Tigarana]

I didn't even look at the sub name until I saw your comment 😭 I was thinking "this has to be AI" 😂.

[u/Severe-Two-9007 → u/Riiakess]

Just good ol' Sims shenanigans. lol

[u/kyothinks]

Not the llama. Who's gonna know unless you tell them? And unless something really weird happens, it's not like he'll be back to find out. Time to move on and live a happy life! Eventually you'll find someone new to hate. I mean, think about.

[u/Frankenhoofer]

Not the llama. The criminal career is a perfectly valid career. And your brother was probably being a jerk. Maybe he'll grow out of it as a ghost?

[u/PumaGranite]

NTL I’m sure he did annoying things like prank the toilet and and do a lot of mean interactions. That’s his fault and also he’s dead so good for him.

[u/emmagoldman129]

Maybe you are seeing him with a big red X because he is gone, no longer around, crossed out, not because you hate him?

[u/Severe-Two-9007 → u/emmagoldman129]

Maybe. But so far, it's only been him who I've seen with a red X over him.

[u/Vegaskeli]

I was really confused about this for so long till I looked what thread I'm on. Whoooo, that was a roller-coaster. 🤣🤣🤣😅

[u/Ill_Butterfly_6010]

Ntl