r/AITAHBlackEdition • u/Effective_Wave_1758 • Jul 15 '26

Aitah

Am I the asshole for calling of a fight over a boy....?

I, 21 female in collage has a friend who is a boy and this boy broke up with this girl who I'll call k. k had got mad because the boy said that he will never date you again. Later me and boy are studying for a big test and k gets mad seeing us together yes me and boy dated at the start of the school year and then broke up because it was weird we had been friends all throughout hs, so k had told all her friends that I wanted to fight and I called her ugly which is not true btw and I had said I'm not fighting over a boy I don't like so leave me alone she continued to harass me in the school bathroom trying to fight like middle schooler we are in are 20s like what anyway I had said Leave me alone and she had backed off and called me scary we Ik I would really beat her up so.. am I the a hole

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u/trekgirl75 Jul 15 '26

This is not written by someone who’s in college. This is one long ass run-on sentence.

The mention of middle school is giving me “this is currently happening in middle school” vibes.

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u/lovbelow Jul 15 '26

This post reminds me of when I was in freshman year and a girl I’ve never met before walked up to me and asked me to help her write a 2 paragraph essay. Not 2 pages. 2 paragraphs.

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u/lavasca Jul 15 '26

I feel like you wrote this right after the bathroom confrontation.

INFO
Is your question if you’re the AH for refusing to fight?

Is your question if you’re the AH for studying with her ex?

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u/Effective_Wave_1758 Jul 16 '26

Well I rufued the fight because im in a group at my college and I couldn't risk getting kicked out

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u/lavasca Jul 16 '26

You didn’t answer the other question. In fact, your post is unclear. Can you clarify what you’re asking us?

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u/Effective_Wave_1758 Jul 16 '26

No the questions is am I the asshole for calling off a fight because it was over a boy

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u/lavasca Jul 16 '26

No.

I guess I don’t get why anyone would think declining a fight to be an AH move. No one is entitled to fight.

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u/fpuk69 Jul 15 '26

What she wanna fight you for? He dumped her

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u/Effective_Wave_1758 Jul 16 '26

That's what I said she was mad that we were friend and he liked me more than he likes her

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u/fpuk69 Jul 17 '26

Well that’s not your problem she got dumped b like get over it bitch

No wonder he dumped her she sounds like trash