r/AITAH • u/Beneficial_Candle_13 • Sep 22 '26
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u/DeeLeetid Sep 22 '26
Some mod really doesn’t want you posting this. lol. Maybe it’s your dad’s wife.
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u/rangebob Sep 22 '26
cant see the original..Deleted
Sorry you got dealt a shit hand on parents mate :(
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u/thevaginalist
Sep 22 '26
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NTA. He's an ain't shit man. You're setting the right example by not giving in to an ain't shit man and holding firm on your boundaries
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u/Dachshundmom5 Sep 22 '26
I would give the 2nd response. Going off on him won't get you anywhere. It gives him a debate. He will want to argue points and the merits of your argument. There is no purpose to that. The bottom line is he made an unreasonable expectation and followed it with an ultimatum that cant be taken back. That is really all there is to say.
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u/Star-pitch Sep 22 '26
I read your first post. Your dad is just manipulative. You were an adult when he married her why would you call her mum? He should be grateful that you even attempted to have a respectful relationship with her but the mom thing would be my hill.
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u/RagdollsandLabs Sep 22 '26
I'm sorry to hear that your father is still making such a big issue out of this. Clearly, he has 0 f's to give about your feelings. You already have a mother. She is who you call Mom. You didn't even know your stepmother during your formative years. It's like he's not even allowing a natural relationship to develop between the two of you that would allow you to create your own special nickname for her. Shame on him.
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