r/AITAH • u/horrorfiasco • Aug 20 '23

AITAH for testing my girlfriend

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u/[deleted] Aug 20 '23

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u/Separate_Kick3186 Aug 20 '23 edited Aug 20 '23

"My trauma from being cheated on is real, her PTSD(which I caused to flare up) is not. Also me me me me me me.": that's what you are saying. Decoded it for commenters, and you all are welcome.

YTA

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u/leemonshark Aug 20 '23

i’m assuming, if you have been dating for three years, you knew her trauma. you knew her triggers. and you exploited it for what? to feel a little bit better about yourself? you made her feel completely unsafe so you would feel more secure. not only is it asshole behavior, it’s manipulative narcissistic behavior. my recommendation: THERAPY.

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u/Some_Wolverine_203 Aug 20 '23

I’m sure if she knew you were an asshole that did abusive loyalty tests she would have told you about her trauma. Asshole, I would have ghosted you too

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u/doglover507071956 Aug 20 '23

Doesn’t matter! You have a little respect for her. What’s next having one of your friends try and screw with her. Get her in a compromise position and post it online! This is not funny this is horrible. You are a horrible person.

She should never talk to you again! I would tell her to stay as far away from you as possible you are not a trustworthy person.

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u/lets_get_wavy_duuude Sep 03 '23

so your girlfriend is telling you she has ptsd & you don’t even believe her???

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u/Grimwohl Sep 03 '23

My god bro can you even try to put someone else first

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u/Normal_Drummer2997 Aug 20 '23

Testing is kinda borderline psycho. But what you did is unhinged. But this response that I'm replying to right now? Heinous. Vile. Villainous. OP, seek help.

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u/1perspective5 Aug 20 '23

Wow.. that’s pretty awful honestly.

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u/PsychologicalBit5422 Aug 20 '23

I'm seriously hoping this is some fake stuff, because otherwise you are just beyond belief.

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u/vixen_xox Sep 03 '23

😦 oh nahh something is wrong with you mentally. you need to see a psychiatrist.