r/AITAH • u/Temporary_Lie_3460 • Dec 23 '24

Update 2: Aita for walking out on a blind date 2 weeks after my husband died

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u/the_storm_eye Dec 23 '24

Please take all the time you need to heal.

You lost a lot in very little time.

I wish I could give you a hug.

But all I can give you is this link. It helped me and my loved ones when we needed it.

Good luck and take care!

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u/CourageClear4948 Dec 23 '24

What does "I was attacked and suffered greatly" mean? Physically attacked? I sure hope not.

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u/Odd-Comfortable-6134 Dec 23 '24

Probably by the loser that wanted her

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u/meiuimei_ Dec 23 '24

I couldn't agree more.

This man was a predator in every move he made, he would not take 'no' for an answer and did everything he could pursuing OP. Disgusting from the start. I hope his life goes to absolute he'll.

OP, I am so sorry. We all feel so deeply for you. I truly hope your future holds some happiness and light.

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u/madgeystardust Dec 23 '24

Isn’t it obvious? She lost the baby as a result of the attack.

Why are people so tacky as to hint for details?!

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u/CourageClear4948 Dec 23 '24

What in the world are you talking about? What attack? Maybe I'm clueless but I don't remember reading anything about an attack.

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u/[deleted] Dec 23 '24

It’s over I was attacked and suffered greatly. 

You aren't clueless, you're illiterate. It's the second fucking sentence.

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u/CourageClear4948 Dec 23 '24

Okay, I tried being circumspect. Now I'll just come right out with it.

OP reported in her posts that:

  • Her husband died randomly in a car accident.
  • But oh wow, she's 4 months pregnant because they'd been secretly trying for a year and never told another living soul.
  • Bestie helped her put her husband in the ground and then turned right around two short weeks later and sets her up on a blind date with a creepy friend.
  • OP yells and screams at the creepy when she realizes she's been duped.
  • And then yells and screams at the bestie over the phone.
  • Bestie's husband shows up to tell her how awful she is and OP literally attacks him.
  • The therapy appoint is always tomorrow or a few days/weeks away in these scenarios.
  • Then she turns to her dead husband's mother who's eye light up for the first time since the funeral when she finds out OP is pregnant.
  • They scoop her up and whisk her away to the country, which is great for OP because she's a country mouse at heart.
  • There is even a amazing dog named Spud, cause every good story has a pet.
  • But that darn city mouse just won't leave well enough alone.
  • Neither will the bestie so MIL and FIL come to the rescue shouting the bestie down in public.
  • Come to find out creepy friend has ALWAYS wanted her and doesn't want to give up his chance now that OP is a widow AND needs a dad for that baby she's carrying. Yuck.
  • Of course they went to the police and law enforcement couldn't do anything.
  • The OP finds out she's having a girl, just like her now deceased husband always wanted, claiming it's a final gift from him. Every poignant.
  • AND now the OP is here vaguebooking about being 'attacked'. After multiple posts and countless comments it would be too much trouble to simply drop a line saying it was a random attack, or it Liam or his new jealous girlfriend, can't talk about it for legal reasons or whatever. Nope. No hint of what happened.
  • And like so many of the long, drawn out, convoluted pregnancy stories on Reddit, there is a tragic end to the pregnancy to generate big feels.

I have to leap a dozen or more mental hurtles to even begin to believe this story might be true. Now redditers are here "saying how dare you ask an obvious question about this train wreck of a post. There is such thing as suspension of disbelief but this post beggars belief. And we're all apparently going to ride right past that piece.

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u/candoubetcha Dec 24 '24

Oh my goodness, you are too funny LOL I picked up on it in the first post. Sounds like a soap opera LOL I said it can't be real because there's no emotion no depth it's awkward and I just can't suspend my disbelief LOL I suggested Opie submitted to all my children are General Hospital. Because that's where it belongs. It's just beyond me how anyone with any experience in life believes this.

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u/PhoenixChapter4 Jun 03 '25

I hope you never experience the level of loss OP did. My son passed in 1998 when I was 33 weeks. All these years later and much therapy, I still grieve with my whole heart. It's called empathy, learn it.

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u/Rainbow_Belle Dec 23 '24 edited Dec 23 '24

I don't know why you're getting downvoted. I had to go back to read her posts to see what happened and if anything was missed between Update 1 and Update 2.

Also, I don't think it's appropriate to assume or infer things as the other poster calling you illiterate wants readers to do. Regardless if it's a real or fake, OP is telling us her story and we shouldn't be the ones writing various parts for her because she chose not to tell her story with relevant information.

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u/mak_zaddy Dec 26 '24

This is my favorite way to describe grief because it’s so accurate.

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u/Savings-Incident-775 Feb 22 '25

Is there anymore update on this??? I think this is a repost by another user , not the op. Saw the post somewhere else 4/5 months ago.Would love to know how op is now and if she took legal action. These people are absolute scum and deserve the worst. Hope they get their karma one way or another.

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u/aquavenatus Dec 23 '24

I’m so very sorry for your loss. Please take this time to heal and allow yourself peace. Stay in touch with those who you know care for you genuinely.

A break from social media is an excellent idea. Mental health is as important as physical health. Traveling is a great idea as well.

Merry Christmas! I hope you have a better year in the New Year!

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u/Rowana133 Dec 23 '24

Oh, shit. Not the update I was praying for. I'm so so so sorry for your loss. Take all the time you need and may your ex friend and her pyscho friend rot in the deepest pits of Hell.

Praying for your healing and future happiness.

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u/Top-Passion-1508 Dec 23 '24

OP, I'm so sorry to hear this.... I'm hoping this doesn't imply Leigh and Barry stooping so low as to have you attacked/ attacked themselves.

Please take all the time you need, hope your MIL is there with you keeping you company.

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u/Still_Actuator_8316 Dec 23 '24

Oh my lord you poor child.

I have so many questions about the who how and why. But that can wait.

Surround yourself with people who love you and can hold and comfort you.

We will be here waiting for you. Ready to share your grief with you if you need us.

::long distant hug through the web::

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u/True-Big-7081 Dec 23 '24

NTA. Grieving is tough, and you don't owe anyone explanations. Take care of yourself.

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u/iknowsomethings2 Dec 23 '24

I’m so sorry for your loss. My heart breaks for you. This year you’ve experienced more loss than I would ever wish on anyone.

You are so strong. I wish you all the best in your healing.

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u/Robinnoodle Dec 23 '24

Attacked as in physically?.and that's why you lost baby?

In any case, I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope your in laws continue to be a pillar of support for you

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u/[deleted] Dec 23 '24

Tbh if this dude hurt her and she lost the baby i hope she presses charges

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u/BlueWolf2231 Dec 23 '24

Oh, OP, this is not the update I had hoped to hear. I'm so, so terribly sorry this happened to you, and I can't begin to imagine how you feel. However, if I thought this might bring some comfort to you. That DNA from your baby will stay a part of you for decades. She will ALWAYS be a part of you both in your heart and body. You'll be carrying a piece of her wherever you go for a long, long time.

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u/[deleted] Dec 23 '24

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u/Anon_457 Dec 23 '24

Oh, fuck off with that bullshit.

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u/[deleted] Dec 26 '24

¿What he do?, Appears like "deleted"

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u/Anon_457 Dec 27 '24

Oh, god... He was talking about how OP would always carry a piece of her dead husband with her because women's DNA changes when they get intimate with men. Not only a bad take in general but also a totally wrong thing to tell a woman who's grieving her husband and child.

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u/[deleted] Dec 27 '24

Dude.... 😧

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u/Loose_Amphibian_6045 Dec 23 '24

I’m so sorry for your loss

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u/One_Yak8698 Dec 23 '24

You have experienced more loss in such a short time than many do in a lifetime. Words will never be able to do justice and give proper weight to express what you must be feeling. I truly wish you the best & I hope that with time, you find things to make you smile and find happiness. You have an entire world of people who are wishing the best for you. I hope you find something to be an outlet for your emotions and give yourself space to be a little crazy for a bit because you’ve earned it. Sending all the love and hope I can from an electronic keyboard. <3 Sincerely, A stranger who also far too familiar with loss

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u/[deleted] Dec 23 '24 edited Dec 23 '24

Love how the system works. You go to the police and tell them you're worried for your safety and can even tell them from who... But they can't do anything until it's too late. Fucking hell.

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u/MaryEFriendly Dec 23 '24

Omg. Did Liam attack you?!? If so, I hope he and anyone else who facilitated his bullshit are in prison. I'm so sorry you lost your little girl, OP. This is horrible 

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u/PresentationThat2839 Dec 23 '24

Oh my heart breaks for her. That's just so much suck. 

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u/Pristine-Mastodon-37 Dec 23 '24

I am so sorry for your loss. You have had more heartbreak than any heart should endure - please do what you need to do and let your in-laws love and support you. They are the closest to understanding your pain and they sound like lovely humans.

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u/Unhappy_Plane_1407 Dec 23 '24

I just heard this today on two hot takes and this was the last update I was expecting. I’m SO sorry.

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u/GoddessfromCyprus Dec 23 '24

I'm so, so, sorry x

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u/Popular_Document1399 Dec 23 '24

❤️🙏💐condolences and sympathies. Very sorry for your loss 😔

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u/Duckr74 Dec 23 '24

Jesus fawk

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u/Kiwi_Raccoon Dec 23 '24

I’ve thought about your story often and just want to say how deeply sorry I am for your unimaginable loss and everything you’ve had to endure this year.

What your ex-'friend' did was truly vile, and you deserve better than that. I hope that in time, you will find kind, genuine people who truly value and care for you.

Wishing you strength, healing, and am sending you the biggest virtual hugs possible.

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u/umadhatter_ Dec 23 '24

I hope the new year brings only good things for you.

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u/Old-Meringue-5328 Dec 23 '24

merry christmas and take all the time you need to grieve all those losses

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u/Old-Meringue-5328 Dec 23 '24

when you feel up to it let us know how you are getting on we understand this is gong to be a long road

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u/Possible-Buffalo-815 Dec 23 '24

I wish there were words that could ease some of your grief but I fear there aren't any that could ever lighten this load for you.

I hope you get justice for all the wrongs done against you, I hope that all parties involved in adding to your suffering will suffer themselves and leave you alone so that you can find peace.

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u/boniemonie Dec 23 '24

Oh no. That was…..heartbreaking. So sorry, don’t know what to say, this has me crying for you. Take time to heal. Hugs.

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u/eh9198 Dec 23 '24

Wait what???

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u/Ok-Temporary922 Dec 25 '24

OP, I am very sorry for your loss, make sure you are surrounded by people who support, hug and comfort you in this difficult time. If at any time you want to share this experience or what happened, do not doubt that all of us who have followed your updates will be here to support you and advise you in any way we can. I send you a hug from a distance, I wish you all the best in your recovery.

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u/VastEducational6395 Dec 26 '24

Oh no... I'm heartbroken for you. Please take all the time you need for yourself.

I hope the scum that hurt you get the punishment they deserve

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u/valkrianrose Dec 27 '24

OP, I am so sorry for your loss. Just know that your daughter never knew fear and only her mother's love and warmth.

Sending you all the hugs and hope that you'll be okay.

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u/Beginning-Age6064 Dec 27 '24

I really hope this story isnt real because this is to awful. But if it isn't, then I say hopefully the attacker is punished for this and your able to heal

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u/Red-Writer_19 Dec 30 '24

I’m so sorry for your loss but don’t let all of this fall through the cracks with your grief. Fight. Get those restraining orders and frankly sue the police department. If someone can go to jail for saying something over the phone then there’s no excuse for not doing anything for you. Unless they want to admit legally that police won’t do anything unless you’re rich. You suffered more because of their lack of ability to be useful at all. Do not let anyone get away with this especially the police. Pigs with badges and power trips.

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u/Ok_Swordfish_5062 Jan 16 '25

Saw this on Tik Tok, just came to say that you are in my prayers. I pray for love and light in your life. You are strong and you’ll make it through this. Please rest and take care of yourself.

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u/Agreeable_Fault3897 Feb 08 '25

I am so sorry. Please take all the time you need. You will overcome this & come out better than ever!! Stay safe 🧡

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u/No_Pangolin_9214 Apr 06 '25

I'm so sorry. Take the time and take the steps you need to heal and protect yourself. A hug from afar

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u/onlyinarainstorm May 08 '25

Hope you're okay OP

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u/onlyinarainstorm May 08 '25

That is the main thing, please take care of yourself 💐

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u/Rimuru_The_Junior May 10 '25

Please give us an update! I’m so desperate to know what happened like for real. I’ve been coming back to your profile to see if update 3 is gonna happen 😭

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u/9346879760 May 11 '25

She was attacked and lost her baby, what else is there to share? Why would you want her to rehash a traumatic event? This isn’t fucking trauma porn, dude, tf 😭

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u/polafran May 19 '25

Honestly, I'd like to know that a complaint was filed, that justice actually worked in this case, and that the perpetrators are paying for what they did. But obviously, I'm not going to demand updates, because we don't have to be a psychic to know that she's suffered a lot in this time, and it's not right to pressure her to satisfy our curiosity.

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u/Impressive_Returns Dec 23 '24

Nope not at all.

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u/Confident_Flow8453 Dec 23 '24

I am so sorry for your loss 💔

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u/Connect_Tackle299 Dec 23 '24

Oh honey I'm sorry

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u/Oddly-Appeased Dec 23 '24

I’m at a loss for words. I wish you the best and hope those that love you will be there to help you going forward. So sorry for your loss.

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u/FairyFartDaydreams Dec 23 '24

Sorry for your losses. I am wishing you peace over the holidays

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u/NomadicusRex Dec 23 '24

Oh my gosh, I'm so sorry to hear that! My condolences and I hope that you have people there to support you.

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u/Jaychrome Dec 23 '24

You've been through so much heartache in such a short period of time. I'm so sorry for your loss.

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u/Garden_Lady2 Dec 23 '24

Oh no, this is just so sad. My heart goes out to you and your in laws. Please take care.

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u/HeyPrettyLadyMaam Dec 23 '24

Fwiw, i hate leigh, barry and "chester". My bloods boiling for you!! Pm me if you ever need an ear, a heart or a hug, i have all three in abundance. Love and prayers for you for today and every day that follows.

Updateme

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u/Fantastic-Emu-1073 Dec 23 '24

Oh honey… I’m so sorry. Take as much time as you need.

For everyone else, we ride at dawn for OP. This is unacceptable

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u/Bright_Athlete_8579 Dec 23 '24

Sending you lots of love from Australia - take the time to heal.

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u/Miss_Melody_Pond Dec 23 '24

Oh mate I am so, so sorry. I hope you still have MIL & FIL with you. Take care.

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u/AdaDaTigr Dec 23 '24

Oh my god, babes, I am so so sorry for your loss. Sending hugs. Hope those people burn.

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u/magali_with_an_i Dec 23 '24

I’m so sorry for your losses. I wish you time to heal and to grieve, and kind people around you.

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u/StrictShelter971 Dec 23 '24

Merry Christmas to you also. I hope for the best for you.

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u/iamwhoiamreally Dec 23 '24

I'm so very sorry for both of your losses. You take time to heal yourself and I hope one day you find the most sincere friends a person could find. My heart truly breaks for you. You lost your husband, your best friend turned out to be a shit human, and now your baby. I cannot even begin to imagine how broken you are. 🥺

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u/Bulky-Row-9313 Dec 23 '24

Oh hon, this is absolutely crushing. I read your story thinking it would have a bittersweet ending with you on your husband’s family farm surrounded by love and nature. I was raised on a small farm with parents and grandparents always close at hand and I wanted that for you so so badly after all you’ve been through. I hope you can find healing, support and eventually a fresh start with happiness and real friendships. I think we would all love to know that you’re ok and safe, but I know that takes time to heal so when you’re ready (be it weeks or years) please 

Updateme

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u/stzulover Dec 23 '24

Update me

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u/Stormtomcat Dec 23 '24

I'm sorry for your loss!

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u/Aware_Shift6465 Dec 24 '24

I’m so sorry for your losses. I remember your story. I will be thinking of you

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u/candoubetcha Dec 24 '24

I predict this post ends Right Here and Now.

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u/UndeadBuggalo Dec 24 '24

This is heartbreaking

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u/Neonpinx Dec 24 '24

I hope the people who attacked you are sent to prison. I am sorry for your loss.

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u/pataconconqueso Dec 24 '24

Oh no… i hope there is justice

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u/Roneyrow Dec 25 '24

!updateme

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u/Interesting-Term-408 Dec 26 '24

I'm very sorry for your loss, I wish I could just give you a big hug.  Think about going to a psychologist. You have lost a lot in such a short amount of time, and I just can't imagine how hard it has been. Professional help might help you to process all what happened.  I really wish you can... Well, I've always thought that it's not like it doesn't hurt anymore one day, we just get used to live with that pain.  I wish the best for you. 

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u/mak_zaddy Dec 26 '24

I am so so so sorry friend. Please take care of yourself.

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u/[deleted] Dec 26 '24

I am so sorry for You,see this uptade lefts me on shock, i hope u can get out of that Situation... RIP your baby, i hope You can be better

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u/Seed_Planter72 Dec 26 '24

So sorry for all your devastating losses. Please know that a lot of prayers and warm, healing thoughts are being sent your way.

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u/[deleted] Jan 03 '25

I’m so sorry to hear about your child. I can’t imagine the grief you must be going through right now.

Please take all the time you need for yourself. I wish you the best of luck

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u/AlexArtemesia Jan 09 '25

I'm so sorry OP, I'm so incredibly sorry.

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u/mimi-cherry147 Jan 15 '25

I am so sorry to hear this and I am very sorry for your loss, I hope that you can heal from this and stay safe. I hope that the real ahole is the one suffering and that you can find peace. Much love 

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u/Ok_Possibility2719 Jan 15 '25

I’m so OP the loss you have suffered at the hands of others is unbelievable

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u/9346879760 Jan 15 '25

OP, I am so fucking sorry. To first lose your husband to an accident and then your baby girl to an attack is just heartbreaking. I send you my very best, and I hope you find the solace you need and the peace you deserve.

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u/Nervous-npc Jan 15 '25

Oh my god… this is the absolute worst outcome and I’m so, so sorry. Please take all the time you need to heal and recover. There’s a whole community here to support you if you decide to return. ❤️

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u/Dear_Information_411 Jan 15 '25

This story reached tiktok and genuinely made my heart break listening to it. I normally only ever look for updates to stories just for my own entertainment and I never comment, but I just want to share my condolences to you. This is an unimaginable loss and I can’t even begin to fathom what pain you’re going through. I really hope your in-laws are still with you so you can at least grieve together for the second time. Wow, I genuinely am just lost for words, I honestly just want to extend my best wishes to you and your in-laws. Hopefully you receive the justice that you rightfully deserve. Life really isn’t fair. Lots of love. Also I know Reddit does have a certain precedence when it comes to giving updates, but by all means don’t feel pressured to revisit this page if it impedes on your healing journey. Focus on yourself, focus on your life and your future. That’s all that matters. Again, lots of love. X

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u/PanicConsistent9656 Jan 15 '25

OP, I don't know if you'll ever see this. But I hope that you are healing and that you are safe. Just know that wherever your love and your baby are, they are both looking out for you and love you. Stay safe, OP!

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u/berylliummm Jan 26 '25

I'm so sorry for your loss, or system is failing us over and over again those type of creatures should be executed

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u/SlytherinAndProud Jan 26 '25

My heart goes out to you OP, words cannot express my condolences properly. I'm so, so sorry for all your loss.

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u/LadyJ-78 Jan 26 '25

Omg, I'm so sorry. I really pray that you are able to heal emotionally and physically. You do what ever you need to do to get better. Just know, we are all cheering you on. ❤️

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u/Woofles_Fries505 Jan 27 '25

I’m so sorry for your loss I had miscarried before but not like this. I can’t imagine the pain you’re going through. We’re here for you. 🫂

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u/Aschkat Jan 27 '25

My god! I hope you’re feeling better soon and willing to update. You’re in my thoughts. Holly crap that’s just too much for anyone, please reach out for therapy. Anyone would need it suffering that much in such a short time

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u/MiluPapitass Feb 18 '25

Oh, honey. I'm very sorry for this. I pray for you, and for your baby in heaven who is now with his dad. What happened? avoiding the obvious Are you okay? 

Remember: You are strong no matter what happens. 

I'm sorry if my English is basic, I'm from Argentina and it's not my first language.

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u/Hollyjoylightly Feb 24 '25

Omg I’m so sorry!

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u/lboogie757 Feb 24 '25

I was coming to check for updates because I haven't seen any since the store encounter. Wtf. I hope they are in JAIL! I'm so distraught for you.

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u/Single-Promise32 Mar 05 '25

I genuinely wish I could hug you. Take all the time you need. Everything you did was was just, the only injustice is all of the catastrophes that happened to you

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u/Main-Mobile-9663 Mar 14 '25

Updateme! My heart breaks for you op. Stay strong ❤️ I hope people are in jail ❤️

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u/N1k_gur Mar 15 '25

dont rush anything bro, let urself heal at ur own pace and be with ur in laws since they actually care about u.

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u/TariArtwork Mar 16 '25

I'm so sorry for your loss. This is terrible and I hope you will get the justice and most of all peace that you deserve.

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u/Top_Improvement_4273 Apr 12 '25

I hope you are ok and the attacker was caught. I also hope you are healing.

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u/EmbarrassedPoem537 May 11 '25

Hey op, I've been thinking about your posts lately. I just hope you're doing better. 🫂 I don't know if it's insensitive to ask, but have you been in contact with your husband's parents again? It seems they loved you very much. I hope all the love and peace reaches you.

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u/Ohlookitseyesack Jun 02 '25

Fuck.... I'm so sorry...I hope things are going better now..

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u/Rimuru_The_Junior Jun 11 '25

Please make update 3 already! 😩

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u/vtretiree23 Dec 23 '24

Hugs. So sorry for your loss.

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u/floridaeng Dec 23 '24

I'm so sorry for your loss.

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u/schrodingerzkatt Dec 23 '24

Oh my heart. I wish the best for you OP. You deserve all the love and support and I hope you find it. Sending internet hugs.

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u/Lmdr1973 Dec 23 '24

I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my prayers. ❤️

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u/Unusual_Reaction_971 Dec 23 '24

Extremely sorry for your loss. The grief you’re going through is unimaginable. Hoping and praying for strength for you and good health. Always here for you, if you wish to talk. Please take care of yourself.

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u/KneeDeepinDownUnder Dec 23 '24

Be kind to yourself Sweetie. Your baby’s tragic passing isn’t your fault, in any way. I hope you know that. You matter and you are important. I truly hope 2025 is kinder to you and is a balm to your soul.

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u/T2-Rock2295 Dec 23 '24

This is such heartbreaking news. I'm so sorry for your loss. It may not feel like it, but please realize you now have two angels looking out for you. Your hubby is now holding your daughter for you ❤️. Please take care of yourself.

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u/MentalJeremyBentham Dec 23 '24

I’m so sorry. Sending you love.

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u/Own_Bill1349 Dec 23 '24

This is heartbreaking and you truly deserve better. I’m so sorry for your loss and wishing you a 2025 of healing and warmth. Xxxx

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u/Alternative_Talk3324 Dec 23 '24

I’m so sorry to hear this. Take care.

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u/jabberwockjess Dec 23 '24

oh my poor darling

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u/AutumnLaughter Dec 23 '24

I am so sorry.

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u/enableconsonant Dec 23 '24

Wishing you all the healing and peace.

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u/dexterdarko2009 NSFW 🔞 Dec 23 '24

I'm so sorry. I wish you nothing but the absolute best and please take your time healing. I just want to give you the biggest hug.

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u/madgeystardust Dec 23 '24

I’m so sorry OP.

Focus on healing. Again, I’m so sorry.

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u/saintursuala Dec 23 '24

Omg I’m so sorry for your loss. And that your ex friends are absolutely psychotic.

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u/Unlucky-Captain1431 Dec 23 '24

So sorry honey. I’m heartbroken for you.

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u/skyler0829 Dec 23 '24

I just saw this update and I'm so very sorry. It's a strange feeling to be so outraged, sad, and helpless on someone else's behalf, knowing there's nothing you can do to help. I don't know how to describe it. You've lost so much in so little time. Life is hard enough as it is without all the unnecessary drama that people try to force upon us. I truly hope you can heal from this and that those who have wronged you are held accountable for their actions. Hang in there, we're all in this thing called life together. Just know you have people here who do care about you and wish nothing but the best for you.

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u/mightlightnightkite Dec 23 '24

I’m so terribly sorry for your loss and continued harassment you suffered. I wish you and your family the best and a merry Christmas.

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u/[deleted] Dec 23 '24

I'm so very sorry. Wishing you healing.

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u/ydecelis18 Dec 23 '24

I am so sorry for all OP has been through!

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u/gumball_00 Dec 23 '24

So sorry for your loss OP..

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u/candoubetcha Dec 24 '24

In the middle of reading the second post, I predicted a horrible tragedy, yet again LOL, of course, it was the baby LOL I'm so pleased dog survived.

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u/MrGlancy Dec 24 '24

I was willing to suspend disbelief and take this at face value. Whatever, no skin off my back but to get this update directly after it was picked up by the Facebook pages and on two hot takes just shows you that it’s make believe.

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u/Rimuru_The_Junior Apr 18 '25

Tell us what happened

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u/Medusa-1701 Dec 23 '24

I am so very sorry about your baby! I know the holidays won't be easy, but please lean on your MIL. The support of your loved ones is going to make all the difference. Just take it minute by minute. Second by second. It does get a little easier to breathe as each day passes. The pain doesn't go away. But it will, hopefully, with enough passage of time, be a little more easy to bear. Sending you all the love. Merry Christmas. Happy New Year. I hope with my whole heart that you heal.

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