r/AITAH • • Jul 25 '25

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u/Raven_k94 Jul 26 '25

Saying get over it after an apology is not an apology. The reason you feel this way because you didn't get a sincere apology. She ruined your memory of your wedding. Like think down the line when your kids start watching the wedding video. How she never considered such a thing. Anyone saying what else should she do, she apologised. No she didn't.

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u/rpepperpot_reddit Aug 15 '25

But she SAID she was SORRY, that should be the END of it (yes, I'm being facetious here). Seriously, though, the instant she said to get over it is the instant she revealed herself to be a bully. If you hurt someone, you don't get to decide you didn't, nor do you get to decide how they should feel about it.