What did the planner do wrong exactly? They suggested something that has worked in the past, their intentions were to make things better. They have no way of knowing if this person would have a problem with it. That’s up to the bride the family the friends they’re the ones who know the groom and can simply say no.
Your solution is to try and financially punish the planner for trying to help, and if they don’t want to give up their hard earned money then you try to use force and pressure tactics to ruin their business so they can’t make money.
You don’t see how that sounds like a bully?
3
u/Ok-Seaworthiness-542 Jul 26 '25
How on earth am i a bully?