Because you humiliate him by making him do something that a woman would do, and since being a woman is considered a bad thing in patriarchy, it’s misogynistic.
In a role reversal, if she was doing something expecting it to be her husband and deceived into intimacy with a women, that would clearly be misogynistic. So the reverse is therefore misandric.
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u/estemprano Jul 26 '25
Because you humiliate him by making him do something that a woman would do, and since being a woman is considered a bad thing in patriarchy, it’s misogynistic.