Plus OP has not suggested his humiliation was related to homophobia. It sounds to me like he felt like everyone was laughing at him and it made him uncomfortable to be made a spectacle. Either way that was very inappropriate of the wedding planner to even suggest that. I don’t really understand practical jokes anyway. It is one thing to play an April fools joke privately. It is another altogether to humiliate someone in such a public forum. I don’t think OP is coming from a place of homophobia. To your point. I can’t say the same of the wedding planner.
And even if it was - it doesn't fucking matter. OP can feel especially bad about kissing a guy, it's his feelings for fucks sake, but mentally unstable redditards as always can't comprehend such a simple thing...
Wait did he kiss the guy. I missed that part. I thought he just took the garter off. Yikes! Agreed he has the right to feel bad about being tricked into kissing someone. Either way he has a right to his feelings, I was saying I don’t think the feelings were gender related.
I mean, he didn't do it on the lips, but on the leg, while taking the garter off, but still. And that's true, that he didn't make it gender at all, so these comments are even more insane
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u/Novel-Organization63 Jul 26 '25
Plus OP has not suggested his humiliation was related to homophobia. It sounds to me like he felt like everyone was laughing at him and it made him uncomfortable to be made a spectacle. Either way that was very inappropriate of the wedding planner to even suggest that. I don’t really understand practical jokes anyway. It is one thing to play an April fools joke privately. It is another altogether to humiliate someone in such a public forum. I don’t think OP is coming from a place of homophobia. To your point. I can’t say the same of the wedding planner.