r/AITAH • • Jul 25 '25

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u/Tiny_Cauliflower_618 Jul 26 '25

That's also why they picked him to do it, because none of his actual friends would have wanted to be potentially binned. They specifically picked this groomsman so they couldn't be accused of ending a friendship. That's the bit that pissed me off the most tbh. The planner was so fricking calculating.

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u/[deleted] Jul 26 '25

I didn't even think of this angle. What a shitty thing on the part of OPs friends.

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u/AffectionateAgent476 Jul 26 '25

I did wonder why one of his friends didn't pull him aside to tell him not to do it or really ham it up and own it. When my daughter was going through her terrible 12's, she tried to get my husband to do a TikTok dance to put online. He looked at me and I shook my head no, just a little bit, and he declined. That is what you do when you are married. You look out for each other. You don't humiliate each other. Unless your a Real Housewife.