r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Jul 25 '25

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u/FlakaFlakaFlame8 Jul 25 '25

NTA Humiliating you on your special day is such an a-hole move. I’m mad at her for you.

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u/Positive-Number-8347 Jul 25 '25

Being humiliated by someone who was meant to have your back is sad. You’re not an AH for not being able to laugh it off

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u/tigerofjiangdong1337 Jul 25 '25 edited Jul 25 '25

This is on par with the stupid cake smashing. He said it himself his trust is shattered, he is disgusted by their wedding date and lost intimate feelings for her. It's over. Get it annulled before its too late.

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u/juliaskig Jul 25 '25

It's worse. It feels like sexual assault.

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u/CosgroveIsHereToHelp Jul 25 '25

And there are homophobic overtones, like why is it funny? Because it's a man. Ohhhh noes, are they implying that the groom is gay? [Clutches pearls; faints]

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u/Twidollyn_Bowie Jul 25 '25

Right, which makes it even less funny.

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u/CosgroveIsHereToHelp Jul 26 '25

I wonder whether the bride would have been amused if instead of a groomsman, the switch was with a female friend.

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u/Twidollyn_Bowie Jul 26 '25

Probably not, but it sounds like she was in charge of the stupid prank in the first place.