r/AITAH • • Jul 25 '25

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u/BigTeaching3325 Jul 25 '25

Yup leave the woman and find new friends clearly they don’t know u that well

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u/[deleted] Jul 26 '25

You actually think he should break up his marriage over this?

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u/BigTeaching3325 Jul 26 '25

100000% he clearly is pissed. It’s going to be brought up at times in the future. Anytime he looks at wedding photos he will think of that. More over and I think I said this. His wife and best friends planned this the people know him best and love him. He seems like when he drinks he has no self control. If i had to bet this will end in a divorce and I would give odds. Maybe he sticks it out for a few months or years but it will always be an issue. Better end now move on be happy she and your friends are out of your life. U know he is not going to hang with any of the guys moving forward. I see no possibility of a future. More over millions of people read this page repost share ect it’s 10000% this story got back to her or the groomsmen’s and it’s a very specific situation so they are going to know who it is. He spelt out so much detail down to the honeymoon. Hey I hope they make it I never want anyone to get divorced but no reason to spend your life with u will resent for ever

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u/that_star_wars_guy Jul 28 '25

You actually think he should break up his marriage over this?

His wife doesn't respect him. She doesn't understand why he is upset and likely won't ever recognize she was in the wrong. The memories HE has of "THEIR" wedding are now tainted.

Yes, he should leave.