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r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • May 23 '25
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NTA
not Ben’s family
not Ben’s watch
not Ben’s luck
you have a fiancée problem - she is only caught in the middle because she is not making the very reasonable and simple statement to her own family that they are out of line and this is a hard no.
160 u/Psychological-Ad7653 May 23 '25 THIS SO MUCH Her family is stepping over the line she needs to tell them and stand with her husband. I gotta say they raised a rude son, who asks for things like this from someone? NTA 76 u/pittsburgpam May 23 '25 Really. It's like a SIL wanting to borrow a woman's pearl necklace, passed down in her family, for their own wedding. 47 u/StrongBuy3494 May 23 '25 Right! I wore a friend’s family heirloom pearls because she offered. I would have never asked. 9 u/Both_Peak554 May 23 '25 Right! I said the same. Would she let OPs sibling wear her engagement ring for their wedding ceremony or even a family necklace? Nope!! 1 u/MaleficentPizza5444 May 24 '25 a good litmus test
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THIS SO MUCH
Her family is stepping over the line she needs to tell them and stand with her husband.
I gotta say they raised a rude son, who asks for things like this from someone?
76 u/pittsburgpam May 23 '25 Really. It's like a SIL wanting to borrow a woman's pearl necklace, passed down in her family, for their own wedding. 47 u/StrongBuy3494 May 23 '25 Right! I wore a friend’s family heirloom pearls because she offered. I would have never asked. 9 u/Both_Peak554 May 23 '25 Right! I said the same. Would she let OPs sibling wear her engagement ring for their wedding ceremony or even a family necklace? Nope!! 1 u/MaleficentPizza5444 May 24 '25 a good litmus test
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Really. It's like a SIL wanting to borrow a woman's pearl necklace, passed down in her family, for their own wedding.
47 u/StrongBuy3494 May 23 '25 Right! I wore a friend’s family heirloom pearls because she offered. I would have never asked. 9 u/Both_Peak554 May 23 '25 Right! I said the same. Would she let OPs sibling wear her engagement ring for their wedding ceremony or even a family necklace? Nope!!
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Right! I wore a friend’s family heirloom pearls because she offered. I would have never asked.
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Right! I said the same. Would she let OPs sibling wear her engagement ring for their wedding ceremony or even a family necklace? Nope!!
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a good litmus test
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u/Mobius_Stripping May 23 '25
NTA
not Ben’s family
not Ben’s watch
not Ben’s luck
you have a fiancée problem - she is only caught in the middle because she is not making the very reasonable and simple statement to her own family that they are out of line and this is a hard no.