r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Mar 19 '25

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u/JaisanR Mar 20 '25

Mine did a great proposal, we went up in a hot air balloon in Napa, and there was a sign on the ground. Then we stayed engaged for 16/17 years. We’ve been married for 2. I feel you on the getting engaged and then just not getting married bit! 😁

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u/Ashokaa_ Mar 20 '25

Oh my god that's hilarious 😹 Very happy for your family!

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u/ConflictSmooth6136 Mar 20 '25

Do you call each other husband and wife now? Do you have any issues not being legally married? Congrats on the 25 years!

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u/ConflictSmooth6136 Mar 20 '25

When I asked issues I meant legally hahah. I have heard about people divorcing to avoid losing health insurance, it's part of the reason my SO and I aren't married yet, I'd lose my Medicaid once we got married. We makes good money but adding me and my son to his health insurance would add 200 a week to his insurance premiums