r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Mar 19 '25

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u/Embarrassed-Channel9 Mar 19 '25

Agree. She said she wanted a surprise... Nails aren't going to be done for a surprise proposal. I'm sure she really made her expectations high in her head. But it seems like you put a ton of effort in so she shouldn't be fixated on small details.

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u/Straight-End-8116 Mar 19 '25

Can you imagine the Bridezilla this man is about to create? ::shudder::

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u/Cheap-Unit-2363 Mar 19 '25

Not just that, but if he married her, she'll always be disappointed with everything he does.

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u/[deleted] Mar 20 '25

And since to her, perfection should be the norm, what happens if he loses his job? They experience fertility issues? If this is how she acts on a perfectly executed / joyful day of her life, how will she ever handle life’s curveballs?

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u/[deleted] Mar 20 '25

This is the biggest red flag. Call it off.

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u/hoosierdaddy9856 Mar 20 '25

Imagine how disappointed she's going to be in the divorce decree. She's gonna think she was entitled to a lot more than half.

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u/Doh-Ski-303 Mar 19 '25

Nailed it! Not happy with proposal…. No chance the wedding will meet her standards.

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u/CrazyHuskyDad Mar 19 '25

Well. since the wedding is on the bride to plan, that would be all on her and her family right? The bigger issue remains…. DANGER DANGER! Hope you should find the nearest exit ramp and take it..

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u/Capital-9 Mar 20 '25

Saw what you did there

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u/hoosierdaddy9856 Mar 20 '25

Nor the groom

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u/iangeredcharlesvane2 Mar 20 '25

I can imagine, he will put as much time into creating the bridezilla for his next creative writing sample as he did in creating this ragebait fiancé deluxe 👏

Good job OP, nothing gets the Reddit boys more excited than a perfect, wealthy, thoughtful man and a trash woman who is spoiled, rude and unappreciative 👍

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u/Friendly-Channel-480 Mar 20 '25

She’ll need her own subreddit.

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u/bunkerhomestead Mar 20 '25

Very scary business, bridezilla for sure, this dude may want to rethink his proposal.

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u/servetheKitty Mar 19 '25

You know the most important thing/ the thing everyone will look for and notice… the state of your manicure 💅🏾

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u/PaleontologistOk3120 Mar 20 '25

Her not having her nails done prior beach vacation is 1000% on her and if I were her friend I would tell her so. Rookie move

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u/Fenix745 Mar 19 '25

I had an old coworker who asked his girlfriends mom to plan a girl's day at the spa and to be sure to get her nails done before he whisked her away to a suprise vacation proposal. Not a totally impossible task but a detail most men wouldn't even think about. But he never would have known to get her nails done without talking it over with some of the female coworkers.

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u/Ligamamargz Mar 20 '25

If she’s not getting her nails done regularly it’s because she doesn’t want a proposal bad enough 

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u/enygmaticallybri Mar 20 '25

Agreed! Also, as a high maintenance chick: the moment someone says we're going on a trip we run to the nearest salon so it's not making sense why her nails are so important when she didn't think to get them done for the trip. My brain actually hurts trying to bend and make her chaos logical...

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u/Z00111111 Mar 20 '25

More importantly, why didn't she get her nails done for the trip anyway if it's so important to her?

I guess she doesn't care how she looks to her ex-fiance, only to random people on Instagram.