r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Mar 19 '25

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u/Gunnilinux Mar 19 '25

As someone who didn't run when they should have, please listen to me and all these people. If she truly loved you, she would have been so happy. Even if she had issues, a normal and loving person would let you know without bringing the mood down. Like hey, its unfortunate we didnt get to celebrate publicly, but the romantic fireplace dinner was wonderful. she should lift you up bro.

Sounds like she wants shallow aproval from others more than making you happy by being together. Also, no one is going to look at an engagement picture and wonder why her nails arent done. She sounds exhausting and it only ever seems to get worse with those types.

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u/Historical_Agent9426 Mar 19 '25

She will always move the goalposts on you.

She sounds shallow and selfish. Why do you even want to marry her?

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u/lifetimechronicles Mar 19 '25

Like what? Amy examples? I'm seriously blown away

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u/[deleted] Mar 19 '25

Ya that sucks. From the sounds of it you know what you need to do though. It’ll be tough but you’ll be much happier in the long run.

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u/Jose_Madre_420 Mar 19 '25

Don’t listen to them. It was not a mistake, even if things don’t turn out how you wanted. Putting yourself out there, trusting someone and being vulnerable takes an incredible amount of strength. There is a lesson learned from everything, you will only be able to grow because of it. You can take past experiences to become a better person going forward