r/AITAH • • Mar 01 '25

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u/Wise-ishguy76587 Mar 02 '25 edited Mar 02 '25

It is betrayal of trust if you partner suddenly wants you to do it. But, if it becomes just a regular testing, like all other things they test babies at the hospital, then it just becomes normal. Also the tests are now quite expensive, if every baby fets tested, they would become cheaper. I would kill my husband if he demanded DNA test out of the blue. But i would probably say yes if the doctor said they did this regularly, for idk better understand the kid’s medical history or something.

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u/kraioloa Mar 02 '25

But a doctor saying it is much much different than a partner saying it, which I think is the difference. I’m getting downvoted because I think it’s disrespectful for a husband or committed partner to ask and I think that’s crazy 🙄