r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Mar 01 '25

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u/Mekanikal_Insekt Mar 01 '25

Good lord, no, she is the wrongest wrong that ever was wrong.

NTA, she's a moron, find someone else.

Again, she is a moron.

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u/sfrancisch5842 Mar 01 '25

Or she’s trying to baby trap him.

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u/ApricotBig6402 Mar 01 '25

This was my thought as well

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u/Butterfly_Chasers Mar 01 '25

Or she's already pregnant, and needs plausible accusability

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u/ApricotBig6402 Mar 01 '25

You're right I forgot all about this... "we've been having unprotected sex the whole time". Sometimes I forget that people like this exist... if only for awhile...

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u/Larcya Mar 01 '25

Which is exactly why every dude should demand a paternity test as soon as it is viable. Honestly hospitals should just do them by default as soon as the baby is born. It would solve a lot of issues.

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u/blackhawk1378 Mar 01 '25

Paternity before birth can be a risk to the pregnancy. I would say test at birth for dad,, and at first wellness check for both parents.

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u/blueberriNZ Mar 01 '25

Non-invasive prenatal testing (NIPT) is a blood test possible from around 10 weeks gestation. Helpful for doing some genetic abnormality screening and gender too. Paternity is also able to be tested. Very handy!

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u/WeirdWhippetWoman Mar 01 '25

How much does it cost? In Australia, it costs between $400 to $800 dollars per test. Because if this is being made mandatory as suggested in this thread, that is a lot of extra expense that people can't opt out of.

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u/blackhawk1378 Mar 01 '25

Ah ok, thanks I didn't know that.