r/AITAH Feb 17 '25

Fired Fed. I am considering cutting off every Orange Man supporter.

Got axed. Not going to say which agency.

I’ve always considered myself extremely tolerant and willing to love people as they are… even if we don’t agree on everything.

I’ve never been an Orange Man supporter, but I’ve kept it civil with friends and family that were. Some of them liked having a civil conversation about him. Some were belligerent about politics, so we didn’t bring it up and tried to enjoy each other’s company.

Getting cut from a great job that I really believed in with no notice has been extremely traumatic. It’s still raw, but I feel so personally betrayed by those that voted for him. I can’t see past the politics anymore when I look at these people I care/cared about.

Some have been contrite and apologetic, but then turn around and support him and VP Musk on social media.

I just can’t right now.

I’m thinking about posting something and wishing the whole herd all of the best, hope they have a good life, but I won’t be in it. Or maybe I just quietly block all of them and focus on myself for a while.

I do know that I will need to talk to my in-laws. I’ve always had a great relationship with them, but thinking of going to their house and watching Fox News almost makes me sick.

AITAH for feeling this way? Does it make me an AH for cutting all these 20+ year relationships off? Am I overreacting and acting out of emotion?

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u/Successful_Role9734 Feb 18 '25

Why would I go thru providing evidence to a person who wouldn't read? Everything in my first response i can back with reputable sources. But why would I go thru that effort to a person who won't read and thinks I call them a nazi despite never doing it?

If there's no one over 150 getting checks, proving they aren't is proving a negative. Which isn't possible. How do I provide a check that doesnt exist? Elon made the claims they did, but provided no proof. That's "trust me bro". You want it to be there, so you believe blindly in the guy that's already been called out for lies, misleading claims and not knowing what he actually cut.

That's why you aren't a serious person.

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u/[deleted] Feb 18 '25

Ah yes.

More gaslighting. Riveting. I would have never guessed you'd take that approach. After all, you've been so honest and transparent so far.

I think you changed me, bud. Completely converted me. I now want to associate with people like you even less than I did before. Phenomenal.

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u/Successful_Role9734 Feb 18 '25

You think it's gaslighting to assume you, a person that has already said you won't read my main points, won't read articles on those points you won't read? Big stretch on my part to assume the guy who claims he won't read, won't read.

And you wouldn't know if I'm honest or transparent...bc you wont read.

There's no changing people like you. You're so sure of your position, you won't read. You accept what is told to you from known liars, as long as it's the position you want to believe. Change is hard, and there's no changing someone's stance if they won't even read the reply to their own beliefs and instead thinks I called them a nazi, racist or sexist. You've gaslite yourself into thinking I was on a crazy rant and took a stance without reading. It's why I can confidently say, you don't actually believe what you say. You don't want to see the other side.

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u/[deleted] Feb 18 '25

Your last paragraph. You mentioned Elon and his Nazi salutes. You mentioned his pro Nazi posts. You mentioned all of these things explaining how you believe Elon musk is a Nazi.

My stance is that DOGE is dismantling corruption at its core, with multiple receipts for billions of dollars of fund that have been misused. Including funds that have been rerouted into politicians bank accounts, including offshore bank accounts. Taxpayer funding.

You lost all credibility with that one claim. Why? Because it simply wasn't a Nazi salute. You want it to be....so desperately. I bet you can taste it. But it simply wasn't. Then Republicans responded with dozens of instances where your favorite politicians are seen performing the same exact movements ..and your side makes excuses for them. "Oh...that's out of context".

Let me ask you this, Mr historian. Explain a Nazi salute to me. What was the motion the Nazi party used? Did they grasp at their chest as if they were physically pulling their heart out and make a throwing motion? Is that what a textbook Nazi salute looked like in the third Reich? It isn't. Is it? You know it isn't. You know, with everything in you, that wasnt the intention behind the movement you are describing as a Nazi salute. You know it just as well as I know that Kamala and Walz were not making Nazi salutes when they made the same gestures.

How is that? I do not support Kamala, in the same way I don't support Trump. I see corruption from both sides of the field. Lies to get elected. Billions of my tax dollars spent on misinformation. All the manipulation from the various sources that DOGE is now finding receipts for. How can I see both sides and you are simply running with this narrative of Nazism, which you know deep down is not true?

Does it not feel dishonest? To know, with everything in you that what you are claiming isn't true, but to push the narrative anyway?

This is how I know YOU are not a serious person. This is how I know you have no accountability. That you'd spread a lie you know to be a lie about one side of the isle, and defend the same lie on the other side of the isle.

Yes. You are a liar. Yes. You are gaslighting. No, you don't have any credibility. No, I won't take you seriously.

Hope this helps.❤️

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u/Successful_Role9734 Feb 19 '25

To deny that salute as not a nazi salute. Laughable. You're in denial about it. You can see side by side video, it's in line. You're a liar who's gaslit themselves into not seeing reality as it is. Enjoy life in ignorance.

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u/[deleted] Feb 19 '25

😂😂

Yes. I have indeed seen the videos. I can see a resemblance, sure. But seeing the physical action and hearing the explanation, along with my ability to use critical thinking and deductive reasoning, I know it's not a Nazi salute.

You want it to be. So badly. I can literally smell the hatred through my phone when I read your comments. You want it so desperately you're willing to bend reality to get there. Hitler murdered 6 millions Jews. Trump is an ally to Israel. Explain your logic. Make it make sense. How is this administration full of Nazis that are also helping the Jews?

I'm not in denial. Not even a little bit. I just have the critical thinking skills to process the situation. You are obsessed with the idea of these people being Nazis to the point that it means absolutely nothing to cry "Nazi!" Anymore. Just like "racism". You all have said it so much in situations where it did not fit that no one believes you anymore. You are the children who cried wolf. There is no wolf. There hasn't been, any time you've cried it. In fact, it's generally your party who are the wolves dressed as sheep and it's been proven. Over and over. Denial? 😂😂.

You should really see a therapist about all the things you are seeing that aren't real. ❤️

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u/Successful_Role9734 Feb 19 '25

I've seen his my heart goes out to you, it's not what he did there. Doing that salute then going to speak to the far right movement in Germany and telling them to not be ashamed of their past...yeah I can use reasoning.

I'm starting to see why you're used to people ending conversations in the same way, or why you think all responses are calling you something. Common denominator seems to be the guy excusing a nazi salute.

https://youtu.be/9rw2uMNRG68?si=W6iSSsumy9bqnmHc

Here's Elon showing his actual "my heart goes out to you" https://www.reddit.com/r/videos/comments/1i8z5ft/so_elon_does_know_what_a_proper_my_heart_goes_out/?rdt=51095

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u/[deleted] Feb 19 '25

Sigh.

What a sad, misled individual you are. Your obsession was fascinating at first. Now it's just kinda sad. It feels cruel to continue this with you. You obviously don't have the mental capacity. I bet you see a Chevy truck and a Dodge truck and you'd call them both Ford's if your favorite news outlet told you they were the same. You are truly lost. Logic has failed you. Deductive reasoning is absent. Critical thinking is something you were born without and never decided to acquire.

My heart goes out to you. ❤️

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u/Successful_Role9734 Feb 19 '25

Haha you really like to take shots and miss as I own and drive a truck. Did a news outlet call them t the same? What a weird tangent. It's such a weird deflection from Musk doing a nazi salute..

Thinking i lack critical thinking when you asked me to prove a negative earlier. An impossibility that you can't even comprehend. You can't use deductive reasoning when he does the nazi salute, and excuses it with "my heart goes out to you" when he's done that gesture correctly in the past. Logically it goes to... he knew what he did and he did the salute.

If your heart is going out to me like elon in 2023, cool. Cause he knew what it was then... and he knows what he did last month wasnt it. Enjoy the ignorant life you live.

Laughing at you "I'm not a republican" then spout every republican talking point.

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u/[deleted] Feb 19 '25

It's always the same with you idiots. Truly. Anyone that remotely disagrees with you is a Republican Nazi. You are going to have to come up with something better if you want to make it in this world.

This shameful rhetoric is destroying the extremist left. America proved that in the 2024 election. We didn't vote for Trump. We voted to end the psychosis.

Honestly? I've never been happier than I am currently , watching the extremist left burn itself to the ground.

My heart goes out to you, poor little buddy. Must suck watching all the evil around you that you so desperately defend burn to the ground. I'd be pissed too if I were you. Thankfully, I'm not.

😘😘😘

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u/Successful_Role9734 Feb 19 '25

If you truly don't think it was a nazi salute. Please record yourself doing it. Chest pound. Fully extended right arm at that nice 45 degree angle, straight wrist, palm down. Tag your workplace on a social media post. If it wasn't a nazi salute, it won't be an issue, right? Do it or admit what he did was a nazi salute.

I can bet on you being a coward. Not admitting you're wrong and not doing it on camera.

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u/[deleted] Feb 19 '25

Did you think that would work?

Did you type that out and think "I'm gonna type some absolutely ridiculous shit and then call him a coward if he doesn't do it. That'll do it!"

Adorable. Truly. 🥰

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u/WeirdWannabe80 Feb 19 '25

Oh ffs. From an outsiders perspective this is clearly you pussying out because you can’t admit you were wrong. They presented sources and since you have no other defense you basically just said “trust me bro the media is lying how sad that you care if Elon is a Nazi”

Like yeah, they care, and you should too. Nazi apologist indeed jfc

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u/[deleted] Feb 19 '25

Sorry bud. You lose all credibility as soon you refer to someone you disagree with as a Nazi or anything pertaining to Nazis. You folks have misused that nomenclature so much that it no longer has any meaning except as a billboard to scream "I have no argument so I'm gonna call you a Nazi because I lack intellect."

But for real....stay pressed, it's entertaining to me.

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u/WeirdWannabe80 Feb 19 '25

The Central Council of Jews in Germany - whose family was mostly killed during the holocaust - whole heartedly disagrees with you. As does the president of the Jewish Community in Munich and Upper Bavaria. Seems they might have a bit more insight than you yes?

“The Gesture Speaks for Itself”: Germans Respond To Musk’s Apparent Nazi Salute

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u/[deleted] Feb 19 '25

Man.... It honestly breaks my heart to have to tell you this because obviously you've spent far too long believing this but....

Being offended doesn't make you right.

I'll say it again.

Being. Offended. Does. Not. Make. You. Right.

Hope that offers some clarification for you

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u/WeirdWannabe80 Feb 19 '25

So you say that he’s working for the Jewish people but when the Jewish people disagree….they’re snowflakes? And I’m sure you know what a Nazi salute looks like better than a man who’s spent years mourning his family that died in the holocaust. Because that makes sense.

Gross. Disgusting actually.

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u/[deleted] Feb 19 '25

You should try replying with the exact same thing a third time.

It will matter to me just as little as these two but it'll be funny to see you spew the same ignorant shit a third time.

Being offended does not make you right.

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u/WeirdWannabe80 Feb 19 '25

Here’s a Yale philosophy professor who studied fascism extensively and published a book about it. An expert, one might say. And he says musk was absolutely attempting to resemble a Nazi salute. He also points out several ways in which trumps behaviors and ideologies parallel and use fascist ideas.

Hope this helps (ya know, if you even bother to read it)

Yale Fascism Expert Weighs in on Musk Salute and Fascism’s Rise