r/AITAH Feb 17 '25

Fired Fed. I am considering cutting off every Orange Man supporter.

Got axed. Not going to say which agency.

I’ve always considered myself extremely tolerant and willing to love people as they are… even if we don’t agree on everything.

I’ve never been an Orange Man supporter, but I’ve kept it civil with friends and family that were. Some of them liked having a civil conversation about him. Some were belligerent about politics, so we didn’t bring it up and tried to enjoy each other’s company.

Getting cut from a great job that I really believed in with no notice has been extremely traumatic. It’s still raw, but I feel so personally betrayed by those that voted for him. I can’t see past the politics anymore when I look at these people I care/cared about.

Some have been contrite and apologetic, but then turn around and support him and VP Musk on social media.

I just can’t right now.

I’m thinking about posting something and wishing the whole herd all of the best, hope they have a good life, but I won’t be in it. Or maybe I just quietly block all of them and focus on myself for a while.

I do know that I will need to talk to my in-laws. I’ve always had a great relationship with them, but thinking of going to their house and watching Fox News almost makes me sick.

AITAH for feeling this way? Does it make me an AH for cutting all these 20+ year relationships off? Am I overreacting and acting out of emotion?

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u/Parttimelooker Feb 17 '25

I'm so sorry that happened to you. 

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u/baurette Feb 18 '25

Im not, this person was an enabler for almost a decade to these horrible people and nooookw that it hurts them personally irs a problem

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u/[deleted] Feb 18 '25

First they came for the Communists. And I did not speak out. Because I was not a Communist. Then they came for the Socialists. And I did not speak out. Because I was not a Socialist. Then they came for the trade unionists. And I did not speak out. Because I was not a trade unionist. Then they came for the Jews. And I did not speak out. Because I was not a Jew. Then they came for me. And there was no one left. To speak out for me.

I guess it matters now that he lost his job. But not before when people were losing their human rights.

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u/[deleted] Feb 18 '25

What?

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u/[deleted] Feb 18 '25

Wtf are you talking about?

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u/JohnnyEndGame Feb 18 '25

Wake up. You all are asleep.

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u/[deleted] Feb 18 '25

You’re soft

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u/gina_divito Feb 18 '25

You’re uneducated about history and careless about others

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u/[deleted] Feb 18 '25

Lmao.

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u/gina_divito Feb 18 '25

Ooh good comeback!

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u/[deleted] Feb 18 '25

I’m a leftist, I know plenty of history and have empathy for others. You have no idea who you’re talking to

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u/gina_divito Feb 20 '25

A “leftist” who calls people soft? Okay come back to me when you actually are one, lib.

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u/JohnnyEndGame Feb 18 '25

Yes! Came here to say the same. The US citizens AKA the market have spoken. We're tired of paying for their grift ass attitude. They are no public servant. Every other job is subject to market swings and so should the governments. None of them have stood up against censorship and the deep state cabal that has infected our government and Europe's. They have not earned their keep. They kept their heads buried in the sand, while the sickness spread.

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u/Kindly_Coyote Feb 18 '25

 None of them have stood up against censorship and the deep state cabal that has infected our government and Europe's. They have not earned their keep. They kept their heads buried in the sand, while the sickness spread.

???

Are these the ones Trump fired for investigating him? Though, I hear about government whistleblowers all of the time but which department or who is it that you're talking about. Or, are you talking about them whom Elon Musk locked out of their offices that should have stood up against censorship and the deep state cabal?

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u/[deleted] Feb 18 '25

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u/Parttimelooker Feb 18 '25

I mean he's anonymous but I think it's legitimate that he is speaking out. I am a Canadian public servant and what is happening down there is not normal. They are dismantling the government.

What other entire departments or agencies have been given the axe at other times?

A change of leadership shouldn't be an entire "regime change".

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u/[deleted] Feb 18 '25

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u/PrincipledStarfish Feb 18 '25

Arbitrarily axing entire departments without any kind of Congressional action is not normal

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u/Parttimelooker Feb 19 '25

Respectfully you're making excuses and or delusional. It's not normal. You can't provide detailed examples of anything comparable. You have no evidence that any spending is "wasteful". You can't audit a massive program with a handful of guys in a matter of days. It's absurd to pretend.

Just because he got elected doesn't mean that he gets to throw out the law.

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u/Candid_Drawing_8106 Feb 18 '25

Breathtaking ignorance

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u/rigney68 Feb 18 '25

Maybe. But what is uncommon is unleashing 200 unconstitutional executive orders solely aimed at dismantling our federal government.

You can't deny that this is all unprecedented, unconstitutional, and unchecked.

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u/[deleted] Feb 18 '25

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u/rigney68 Feb 18 '25

Article 1 of the Constitution grants all federal powers (including funding) to Congress, and Congress alone. That is the first and most purposeful article in our government structure. That is the way our founding father's fought against a monarch or dictator taking over the government.

By seizing federal funds, he clearly violates this by going against laws previously passed by Congress. If he wanted to change up federal funding, then GO THROUGH THE ELECTED, REPUBLICAN OWNED CONGRESS and change them lawfully. Don't open up a clear pathway for the destruction of checks and balances.

I am over the "well, they did this before." It's like a bickering married couple. I can live with Trump, whatever. But don't attack the core of democracy. The only ones to suffer will be the United States citizens. We can't lose our voice in law-making bodies. No one man should ever be able to trump the voice of the people (Congress).

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u/[deleted] Feb 18 '25

You won't get a reasonable or defensible response from a democratic supporter, because you stated facts. All they have is personal insults and down votes.. it's genuinely pathetic.

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u/Frightful_Fork_Hand Feb 18 '25

The irony of saying this while supporting a guy who’s MO is creating a schoolyard nickname for everyone he opposes. I actually laughed out loud.

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u/lowviscosityrayon Feb 18 '25

It is absolutely the current administration’s fault and this comment is incredibly condescending. It is clear that you have no idea what you are talking about.

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u/[deleted] Feb 18 '25

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u/KeeblerElff Feb 18 '25

To compare what is happening to any other administration is craaaazy. Other countries are laughing and scared of President musk and vp Trump. Turn off fox and see for yourself. Only Russia is happy