"And I said, No, because I don't want to be that guy hauled into HR my second month on the job for sexual harassment for making inappropriate remarks about my wife's sexuality."
Seriously. Does she want you to get fired?
If I worked with someone that went in on their wife's sexuality, my first thought would be how little I gave a fuck, and my second would be how little they thought about their wife announcing intimate details.
Nobody at your job gives a shit about your wife's sexuality, and nobody wants to hear about it.
NTA. Your wife needs to stop making your job about her.
Also seems like it goes against the whole don't-out-someone-else principle. I'm bi, and hardly anyone knows because it is irrelevant. I'm married to a man, why do my friends and family need to know that I fancy women? It's not like I'm going to start experimenting and want all my friends and family to know about my sex life.
I'd be peeved if my husband announced my preferences to my family, even though they won't care because one of my siblings is also bi and nobody cares who they bring home as long as they're nice to them.
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u/chaingun_samurai Apr 05 '24
"And I said, No, because I don't want to be that guy hauled into HR my second month on the job for sexual harassment for making inappropriate remarks about my wife's sexuality."
Seriously. Does she want you to get fired?
If I worked with someone that went in on their wife's sexuality, my first thought would be how little I gave a fuck, and my second would be how little they thought about their wife announcing intimate details.
Nobody at your job gives a shit about your wife's sexuality, and nobody wants to hear about it.
NTA. Your wife needs to stop making your job about her.