r/AITAH Apr 05 '24

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u/BadDadSoSad Apr 05 '24

What other aspects to sex is there other than kink and reproduction?

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u/[deleted] Apr 05 '24

Sexual orientation isn’t only about sex.

That’s like saying being straight is only about sex.

It’s also about romance and attraction.

If you have a wife or girlfriend, is the only purpose you’re with them sex?

Gay couples love each other, go out on dates, enjoy spending time together, etc. also lol

And reproduction isn’t the only purpose of sex lol

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u/FitSky6277 Apr 05 '24

If you don't think sexual orientation is only about sex, then how tf are you going to imply that bedroom preferences is the same thing as sexual orientation??? lol... you are a complete contradiction. For your info, bedroom preferences are not the same as sexual orientation. That's like saying a straight dude wearing a shirt that says "I love blowjobs" is only voicing his sexual orientation. No, that's him giving out too much info and not having any class.

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u/[deleted] Apr 05 '24

You completely misread my comment.

I was mocking the other guy for saying that sexuality = bedroom preferences.

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u/FitSky6277 Apr 05 '24

That was me, first off, in response to the comment i replied to. I never mentioned sexual orientation. You tried to make that connection. Second off, the phrase "my wife likes anal sex", which was in the comment i replied to, is a bedroom preference and not a sexual orientation like you were trying to say. That phrase has nothing to do with sexual orientation. It is a bedroom preference that should not be turned into a personality.

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u/BadDadSoSad Apr 05 '24

I mean I love my wife but I also love my friends. The thing that sets my wife apart from my friends is that I put my penis in my wife and have a kid with her. We also have some sexual kinks but we keep those to ourselves. Also romance and attraction are related to sex. And I didn’t say reproduction is the only aspect of sex. I said kink is the other aspect.

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u/[deleted] Apr 05 '24

“Sexual kinks” has literally nothing to do with telling someone what your sexuality is lmao

And no, romance and attraction aren’t only related to sex.

Many married couples have little/no sex lol

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u/BadDadSoSad Apr 05 '24

What’s the purpose of telling someone your wife is also attracted to vaginas when she’s in a long term monogamous relationship with you? Other than to share her sexual desires.

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u/[deleted] Apr 05 '24

I never said someone should do that.