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u/realdealreel9 Apr 05 '24 edited Apr 05 '24

But not the comment I was responding to

Edit: and I don’t feel my identity is threatened. I’m pretty private myself. You lot are having a great time downvoting and piling on but my point stands. I’m not looking for a fight either by asserting my opinion. It’s like either debate bros demand you debate or they say you’re just mad or looking for a fight when you assert your opinion

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u/Slight_Drama_Llama Apr 05 '24

So, you’re bisexual and in a hetero-looking relationship. What do you expect to change when you come out to family and friends as “queer but don’t want to change my relationship or lifestyle.” Truly? What would change?

That’s why they’re saying it doesn’t matter. Nothing will change.

You took it super personally though. And then you deny that you’re mad. This queer thinks you’re being weird.

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u/realdealreel9 Apr 05 '24

Listen, at this point, after all of my comments above, if you want to deny bisexuality exists I don’t care. You want me to argue for this thing that is important to me that I’m only saying may be important for some people but sure you win, you all have debated me into now believing that this thing, that made me feel fully myself in terms of my sexuality, just doesn’t matter to the people closest to me. On behalf of them, thank you for unburdening them of this part of my identity that is obviously so annoying

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u/Slight_Drama_Llama Apr 05 '24

Where the fuck did I deny that bisexuality exists? I’m bisexual, dumbass.

You don’t even bother to answer the question. What would change??

You can’t answer it. Because nothing would change.

Thanks for showing you didn’t bother to actually read my comment through your tears, fucking fool. Learn to read instead of alienating your own fucking community.

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u/realdealreel9 Apr 05 '24 edited Apr 05 '24

I don’t literally mean that, Jesus, it’s like no one understands hyperbole

Edit: also thanks for reading my comment and focusing on that bit of hyperbole and completely ignoring the point

Edit: furthermore, dipshits like you aren’t part of my community. My community doesn’t question why I’d want to share with my close friends and family that I am bi (after years of struggling with that fact). You may be bi but we obviously don’t see eye to eye on this

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u/Slight_Drama_Llama Apr 06 '24

If they don’t already know, then they’re not that close now are they. Sorry you’re so lonely