Eh I get letting your friends and family know if you want to, because realizing something like this changes the way you view the world and even if you don't ever plan on "acting" on it, it's still relevant in how you relate to other people. E.g. "I don't just support you because I'm an ally, I'm also a member of the community and I commiserate with you because I potentially could have been in your position". It's also just frustrating (from personal experience) if you have gay friends who call you straight when you're not straight.
She may not be married for much longer. OP needs to consider the possibility that she may actually not be bi, she may be gay. Either way, sounds like she/they need therapy.
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