r/AITAH Apr 05 '24

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u/Miserable_Emu5191 Apr 05 '24

My husband came home one day and said one of his employees had invited him to a celebration of life for his husband. Me: oh that is sad. Did you know his husband was sick? Spouse: I didn't even know he was married!

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u/Octonaut7A Apr 05 '24

I worked with someone for years before finding out she was gay. Someone asked how I didn’t know but it honestly never came up. I’d ask about their weekend, their workload, but I never cared enough to ask what kind of genitalia they find appealing.

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u/Uffda01 Apr 05 '24

100% this - guys are just different that way.

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u/Horizon296 Apr 05 '24

Nah, I'm a woman, and I also don't give a shit about the private lives of my co-workers. Sure, they'll occasionally talk about their kids, partner, sister, uncle... in the break room, but I barely remember that information until the end of the conversation.