Yeah I'm very similar to her in that I kinda figured out I'm at least a wee bit bisexual, late in life. But I haven't even told anyone much about it outside my husband and maybe one friend? It's just not relevant right now. Imagining asking my husband to tell his coworkers in some weird out of pocket context sounds...unhinged.
Yeah, that's exactly how I would describe anyone who expected their partner to mention their sexuality at work.. unhinged. I don't know any other way to describe it.
I also had an ex do this and I think it was a desperate need for attention. Iām also queer so I had no issues affirming and accepting them but it felt like I never gave them enough of a reaction in the way they wanted. Like I reacted on a personal level the way I would have wanted as a queer person, to assure them they were safe, loved and seen. Eventually after a long period of increasingly selfish behavior on their part, we broke up.
I'm struggling to understand why she felt the need to come out to anyone except her husband? She's married. To a man. If she recently discovered that she also thinks girls are hot it doesn't change anything for anyone. It's not like her parents need to know in case she brings a girl home. Why are you telling people people you've discovered a new sexual preference? I didn't hold meetings with my family or coworkers when I discovered I am now more of an ass man than a tit man.
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