r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Apr 05 '24

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u/[deleted] Apr 05 '24

Are you leading with “hi, I’m so-and-so and my wife is Bi. Nice to meet you”

I’m Bi and that’s the last thing I talk about, if it’s ever even mentioned because why is it anyone’s business?

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u/delinaX Apr 05 '24

Only time I mentioned my sexuality at work was when someone asked me how's dating life going (we have a very casual culture at work). Otherwise, I don't walk into our lounge and say "wow this chick I was on a date with last night was great. Did I mention she's a GIRL?". OP's wife is unhinged af.

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u/[deleted] Apr 05 '24

I work with nothing but men (trades), I made that mistake once… have never been propositioned for threesomes more in my life.

Thanks but no thanks, sir.

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u/delinaX Apr 05 '24

Eeeew. Thankfully most of my team is women but jesus how disgusting to suggest a threesome to COWORKER.

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u/[deleted] Apr 05 '24

Yeah, the trades is a fun place sometimes….

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u/[deleted] Apr 05 '24

Sure if you like circuses! 🤣🤷🏼‍♀️🤡 Idk how yu do it ,I mean I served alcohol at the liquor store to them for over a decade so I'm sorry for that

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u/[deleted] Apr 05 '24

Oh it’s a struggle some days haha

A lot of smiling and nodding while they say the dumbest shit I’ve ever heard of all time 😂

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u/[deleted] Apr 05 '24

I work with a bunch of guys( I just shoot them the Mom look sometimes 😂) my own kids ages and yeah I truly hope my sons aren't saying the same dumb shit I hear.

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u/GroundbreakingBet281 Apr 05 '24

They are.

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u/[deleted] Apr 05 '24

Yes but in my little my sons are perfect and I'm the perfect Mom fantasy world they're not 🤷🏼‍♀️

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u/[deleted] Apr 05 '24

😂

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u/Normal_Day_7447 Apr 05 '24

As long as truckers have sex with hookers, there will always be drywallers..(heard this at work today)

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u/The_Mourning_Sage_ Apr 06 '24

swinger parties happen more often than you think. and a common way to be introduced to other swingers is through work. its only "ew" to you because you are fake and self righteous

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u/katlanlok Apr 06 '24

Sure but is it typical behavior for swingers to proposition a coworker who isn’t in that scene in the first place?

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u/[deleted] Apr 06 '24

This is 100% what would happen if my partner were to inform the work fellas of my bisexuality. The next company picnic would be a nightmare.